Emotional abuse is also known as verbal or psychological abuse and is the most common type of child abuse. It happens when a child is made to feel alone, unloved, scared, or worthless repeatedly. Constant hostility, bullying, rejection, teasing, criticism, yelling, and exposure to violence in the family setting can also be considered emotional abuse of children.

How does Emotional Abuse Affect Children?

Emotional abuse, especially in children, isn’t as obvious as physical abuse, because physical injuries often leave scars on children. Psychological or verbal abuse is difficult to identify, but the impact lasts a lifetime. This form of abuse affects children in the following ways;

• Limits their emotional abilities
• Affects their ability to focus or learn at school
• They change their behavioral patterns
• Lowers their self-esteem
• Creates a distorted image of what or who a parent should be

Note that psychological abuse is critically harmful at a younger age. That means infants, toddlers, and young children who suffer from a lack of positive interactions may be anxious and withdrawn. They’re likely to fail to develop language and social skills early on in their life.

What are the Signs of Emotional Abuse in Children?

Once you understand the signs of psychological abuse across different ages, it becomes easier to identify them in kids. A child who has experienced verbal or emotional abuse may;

• Begin to act out and seem to have behavioral issues
• Be depressed, withdrawn, or lack empathy
• Clingy to the people who give him or her attention
• Be less afraid compared to other kids the same age
• Wet bed regularly and struggle to potty train
• Strictly stick to the rules of any adult in a supervisory position, such as babysitters, teachers, or doctors
• Develop various self-soothing mechanisms, such as rhythmic rocking and repetitive motions
• Suffer from disorders related to eating, communication, or sleeping
• Show less interest in communicating or interacting with other people
• Sometimes, they make negative statements, like “mommy says I’m bad.”

It’s crucial to note that some of these signs of abuse may also be symptoms of other cognitive conditions and disorders. Therefore, you shouldn’t dismiss them.

Professional Support for Emotionally Abused Children

In many cases, parents or carers who psychologically abuse children may have experienced some form of abuse as kids. It’s some kind of vicious cycle that requires strength and professional support to break. That’s why professional treatment is necessary for both parents and children who have been exposed to emotionally abusive situations.

If sexual or physical abuse is suspected, or the psychological abuse is severe, the child’s safety must be a priority. Professional treatment should start once the child’s safety is assured. Remember, professional treatment for emotional abuse in children isn’t a short-term solution. That’s why commitment is necessary for the individuals involved.